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Dreams & Wishes

Dreams & Wishes

As I look back on the past year, I realized that I lost time. I rushed through from one thing to the next. Always pushing harder and harder to make it through. I barely came up to breathe and if I did, it was only to dive in again. I had to always be doing…

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Quiet Questions

Quiet Questions

I dreamed once, long ago, of a love so strong that it permeated my whole being. It radiated up out of the dream and entered my reality when we met. Silhouetted against the sun, I saw him, arms out stretched, welcoming me, filling me with acceptance and peace. It’s been six years since I had…

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No Regrets

No Regrets

This week would have been my 15 year anniversary. This week, my Ex re-marries. To say that there are a lot of mixed emotions would be an understatement. My head houses so many memories, linked with feelings, that I can revisit in an instant. They make me smile, laugh out loud, wistful, and sad. This…

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Measuring up

Measuring up

My back was put against the wall this week about “success” by measuring my efforts vs results. Was I measuring up? Measuring up to what and by who’s standards were the questions that rumbled in my head. I became really indignant and felt that all my efforts were not enough according to standards I didn’t…

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When “Yes” girl said “No”

For years, I was that girl: the one who always said yes. It was easier. Stress came when I tried to say no. A looming tidal wave of negative energy would build up from the other person if there was even a hint of a “no”. It was intimidating so I always backed off, retreated,…

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Do you know who you are?

Do you know who you are?

I know who I am – Do You? Looking back over the past year, many adjective were used to describe me. They describe two very different people. My question to you is this: when you assign adjectives to a person, is that from personal experience? What are the intentions behind the words: to lift up…

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